There is no viable solution to the lethal trifecta, and the lethal trifecta is the whole reason openclaw gets used in the first place. If there was a viable solution someone would be making billions off of selling it.
A system's purpose is what it does. The way to stop the attention stealing machine (Facebook, TikTok, etc) from stealing your attention is to turn it off. The way to stop the data stealing machine (OpenClaw) from stealing your data is to turn it off.
You don't have any control over any of the workings of Facebook, Tiktok, etc; you use them, you have to accept what you get. You have full control over the entire working of OpenClaw, and so can always improve it.
You have no control whatsoever. It's a non-deterministic program running under the control of one company on the hardware of another. The only thing you can control is whether or not you stuff all your data and agency into its widening maw.
You're coming across as being very dishonest here. OpenClaw is an open source project. Users may interface it with proprietary or open LLMs, and of course what is sent as well as what is returned can be sanitized. Same goes for any other tools and services attached. As such users have complete control in the shaping of their experience.